i noticed i gave this question an upvote....and i still like it....but...
i imagine all kinds of ways to deal with disputes/conflicts, but i don't know i could distill it down to one or two....so many types of disputes/conflicts could happen, different numbers of people involved, varying degrees of emotions, sometimes involving material things and sometimes not, different relationships and familiarity of the people involved, etc, etc.
perhaps it would help to think of a particular context or situation, or how people/i resolve or deal with conflict right now...some rambling thoughts...