RothbardAnCap--
I see a lot of 'ancaps' consider the current circumstances as 'natural', and ignore the role that primitive accumulation (and the force that went with it, that you mentioned) played in making wage labor our only meaningful option, besides starvation or exploitation. I think we assumed you felt the same.
Also, a thought:
If you accept that the term capitalism is not just the use of capital, you may accept that anarchism is not simply being against government/state and that the term anarchism is an actual political philosophy and not simply a word to use etymologically as 'without ruler'. It follows that if you're not going to use capitalism to refer to plain old markets, then you may not want to use the term 'anarcho-capitalist'. You would be a market anarchist. Although, I don't suspect you adhere to the political philosophy of anarchism, and since you don't want to use capitalism, you may not want to use the term anarchism either.