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Your guess is as good as mine. In terms of anarchists having conversations with each other, I would say that a good place to start is a ready willingness to admit that none of us really has any clue what needs to be done or even how to speak about it in a way that makes sense. There can be no "ideal" vocabulary for describing the various "systems" of domination and, for this reason, misunderstandings will continue to be inevitable. With that said, a willingness to embrace this radical uncertainty frees up space for experimentation with both theory and tactics rather than continuing to be tied down by outmoded ideological frameworks. Something that I find sorely lacking in most anarchist activity today is a certain element of playful spontaneity. Whether consciously or unconsciously, most anarchists seem to act from a perceived sense of duty and obligation that isn't conducive to a free and autonomous life.
As new-agey as it might sound, there is truth to the statement that there's freedom in uncertainty. The sooner anarchists begin throwing their ideological sacred cows out the window and start injecting a little joy and spontaneity into their activities, the sooner they can begin experimenting with ideas and strategies that may never have occurred to them before. And it doesn't all have to be stuff that could get you arrested either. Personally, I see just as much radical cred in certain types of performance art as I do in, say, charging a line of riot cops or burning down a biotech lab. Sometimes, fucking with people's heads in a creative and humourous way that makes them think critically about certain aspects of their daily lives that they would otherwise take for granted can be more subversive than anything else.