"Maybe what you consider to be people trying to "mentally fuck" you is just them wanting to have discussions that you're not interested in having."
I'm not talking about me, "others". Maybe you are English? I stayed there almost four years, everyone kept saying "you" and I'm like "me, dude?" and they're like "no, everybody, you dumb fuck!"
"If intense theoretical discussions aren't your thing, then no one's going to force you into having them. Just realize that there are people out there who do want to have those conversations and that engaging with you on a purely introductory level may not be a priority for some of them."
It's not about me. If I want to join in a discussion I will. If people reply to me I will reply to them, not a problem.
"This doesn't mean that their priorities are any 'better' than yours, but it also doesn't mean that they're just over-intellectualizing and need to stop making things needlessly complicated."
Dude, you seem to have a hang up about intellectualism and anti-intellectualism, chill bud, chill .